How to have a full-body orgasm

What’s really happening in your body when you climax

TL/DR: The full-body orgasm isn’t a myth. It is real, and even if you have yet to experience it, it’s totally attainable. For people with vulvas, the key is getting comfortable in your body and enjoying the moment, rather than focusing too hard on the “goal.” Your body goes through a whole bunch of physiological changes as you start to climax – but what’s going on in your head plays an even bigger role.  

For people with vaginas, it can be hard to pinpoint where an orgasm begins and ends. Does it start in the clitoris, at the center of thousands of pleasure-purposed nerve endings, or does it start in the brain? What about the g-spot? Or the c-spot?    

New research suggests it may be a combination of the brain and the body working together in harmony that gets the orgasm train screaming out of the station.¹ 

Imagine you’ve had whatever combination of food, drink, and kink that gets you loose. You’re in a safe, comfortable setting. It’s about to GO DOWN – and you begin to realize that the full-body orgasm you’ve heard so much about is real and it’s happening, in your bed, right now. 

Here’s what scientists say is up with your body:

• Your brain and clitoris are working in tandem to get you horny. You don’t even have to be physically touching your clitoris for it to react to your sexual arousal. Anyone who has ever felt their panties throbbing after watching too many of that-certain-someone-in-Hollywood’s IG stories knows what we mean.  

• You might experience a trance-like state when you’re on the brink of orgasm. It’s been discovered that people often feel a sensation of sexual intoxication (almost like hypnosis) rush over their entire being when they’re highly aroused. 

• Your toes might curl up, due to pelvic floor contractions. The physical sensation of orgasm is described in science-speak as the “rhythmic, smooth muscle contractions [that] are triggered in the pelvic region,” ¹ and your little piggies might be inclined to follow suit. 

• Orgasms release chemicals in your brain that some people say are like a drug high. Keep this in mind the next time a friend complains about that one person they can’t stand but also have sex with, like, often. 

• The reason your calf might start spasming during an orgasm is because you’ve been ignoring the awkward position you’re in. When you’re about to climax, your brain puts on orgasm blinders, focusing only on what will help you reach the finish line. 

• Your pupils might get bigger, or dilate, to take in the view. Whenever us human animals get excited, our whole bodies ramp up. It’s part of why we’re apex predators. It’s also why your eyes get all big and goofy when you finish.

• Your heartbeat reaches a peak when you orgasm and your skin might become all red and flushed looking. For men and women, orgasms are basically a combo of physical and mental overload, orchestrated to reward them for having sex.

What is a full body orgasm and how does it differ from a regular orgasm?

A full-body orgasm is an intense and prolonged orgasm that involves sensations throughout the body, not just focused on the genital area. It differs from a regular orgasm by being more powerful, longer-lasting, and involving waves of intense pleasure spreading from head to toe.

Female Orgasm: How to set yourself up for a whole-body orgasm

ICYMI: The very limited research that exists on the female orgasm has found that only 18 percent of women can climax during penetrative sex.² So if you’re not finishing every time you have intercourse, you’re most definitely not alone.

Or maybe you’re getting there thanks to masturbation, but have less intense or less satisfying orgasms when you’re with a partner. Or maybe you haven’t found the magic trigger in your body parts that makes it happen just yet – and if that’s the case, no worries. Just be patient with your body and try not to overthink it.

While there’s no magical potion or spell that’ll guarantee full-body sexual ecstasy, we do have a few tips to optimize your level of pleasure.

Time it with your cycle.

Hormone levels reach their sexiest right around ovulation – meaning you won’t need much “inspiration” to get off. Track your cycle and plan your sexual activity a few days before you ovulate (or the day of).

Of course, don’t feel like you’re limited to those dates. Period sex is a game-changer and an orgasm may even make your period end sooner than normal.

Do away with expectations.

Avoid telling yourself that you have to orgasm in order for this mission to be considered a success. Instead, relax and focus on enjoying what you feel in the moment. Expectations can often put unnecessary pressure on yourself and inhibit your ability to fully let go and experience pleasurable sensations.

When exploring the realm of full-body orgasms, it’s crucial to release any preconceived notions of what should happen and simply be present in the sensations unfolding within you.

Set the stage: minimize distractions.

Put your phone on do not disturb. Put Fluffy in his crate. Shut the door, close the blinds, and dim the lights – or keep ‘em on. When it comes to reaching a whole-body orgasm, it’s essential to set the stage for uninterrupted pleasure.

Remember, the journey to sexual ecstasy is unique for everyone. Minimize distractions, create a serene environment, and prioritize your pleasure without pressure. Give yourself the time and space to discover what truly ignites your senses.

Do whatever it takes to create an environment where you feel 100% relaxed and comfortable to explore.

Break out your favorite toys.

Be it a bullet vibrator or a super lifelike dildo, sex toys can help you hit the right spots with exactly the right kind of pressure. Some vulvas respond especially well to clitoral stimulation provided by toys that mimic the clitoral massage and suction of oral sex, like this one at the top of certain celeb wish lists. The same brand makes a prostate massager that gets equally great reviews. 

Immerse yourself in quality content.

Find some erotic content to get you (and your partner, if you so choose) in the mood. If you have some time to kill, queue up Blue is the Warmest Color or American Honey on Netflix – or check out the Dipsea app for quick, kinky audio. Other content you can indulge in includes erotic literature, sensual podcasts, or even artistic visuals that stimulate your mind and body.

Exploring different forms of erotica can enhance your arousal and pave the way for a more intense full-body orgasm experience. Remember, the key is to immerse yourself fully in the moment and let your desires guide you towards ultimate pleasure.

Add lube.

Even if your body’s natural lubricant is plentiful, a specially designed lube takes much longer to dry out or get sticky – and it’s safer than saliva since it’s bacteria-free.

Make sure you use a lubricant that doesn’t irritate your vulva/vagina (flavored lube tends to contain sugar, which can lead to yeast infections). Water- and silicone-based are usually a good bet. 

Target your g-spot.

Some theories suggest that g-spot stimulation is more likely to help you achieve a full body orgasm.³ Why? Because your g-spot is believed to communicate with the brain via the vagus nerve, which bypasses the spinal cord and wanders in deep pathways throughout the entire body.

Use internal stimulation to find your g-spot (it’s usually about 2-3 inches deep along the front-facing wall of the vaginal canal) and gradually feel out what type of sensation does it for you.

Don’t forget to breathe.

Breathing and orgasm are linked, so try this: Inhale for four seconds, exhale for four seconds, and keep your energy flowing as you move from foreplay into your more erogenous zones. Let yourself make as much noise as you want, but come back to deep breathing if you start to stress out or notice your mind racing to avoid a mental block.

According to tantric sex practices, using breathwork can channel your sexual energy into more intense, toe-curling, waves of pleasure leading to whole body orgasms. 

Reaping the benefits: Why full-body is the ultimate orgasm #goals

Clitoral orgasms, vaginal orgasms, cervical orgasms, any type of orgasm feels good. More than good, if you ask us. But orgasms have some pretty legit health benefits.

An orgasm can power up your immune system, improve your mood, boost self-confidence, relieve stress, and even make it easier to fall asleep. A “full-body” orgasm may be especially beneficial for your health. More research still needs to be done, but it’s likely that stronger, longer, and more intense orgasms release even more feel-good health-boosting endorphins. 

Remember, every body is different, so it’s important to explore what works best for you. Don’t rush the process and enjoy the journey of discovering what brings you full-body orgasmic sensations. Trust in your own body’s capacity for pleasure and be kind to yourself throughout the exploration.

So, a word to the wise: Don’t forget to charge your vibrator tonight. You can thank us later.  

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