How to create a first period kit & what to include
Uterati community member Jennifer W. started her first period while she was at the movies with her mom. She went to the restroom to check if she had accidentally peed herself, but sure enough, there was blood everywhere.
She asked her mom for support, but was instead instructed to fold toilet paper and stuff it in her underwear until the end of the movie. “So I sat through the rest of the movie with toilet paper in my underwear, completely uncomfortable,” says Jennifer W.
Afterward, they drove to a pharmacy to buy pads. Her mom simply left her alone in the bathroom and said, “Put one of these on.”
Most of our first period experiences are traumatic, lacking additional information or care for the gut-wrenching surprise that you bleed monthly from a body part that people don’t really like to talk about that much. Healthy conversations around periods start in the household.
Luckily, our private Facebook community, The Uterati, is full of wonderful people looking to start healthy conversations about periods with their kids.
Community members came up with the idea of a “first period kit” — a gift basket with handpicked gifts that could help your child understand, respect, and celebrate their bodies during their menstruation. A first period kit can include practical pain-relieving items, a variety of menstrual products to try, and luxurious items like candles or face masks to help your child ease into their new normal.
A first period kit should be a thoughtful and comprehensive way to support young individuals as puberty hits and they navigate this significant milestone in their lives. It can include items such as backup underwear, assortments of menstrual products like pads, tampons, or menstrual cups to cater to different preferences.
Pain relief items like heat packs or pain medication can also be included to help alleviate discomfort. Educational materials such as books or pamphlets on menstruation can be beneficial in providing information and fostering open conversations. Additionally, including self-care items like chocolates, scented candles, bath bombs, or skincare products can help create a sense of comfort and relaxation during this time.
How can a first menstrual kit help prepare young girls for menstruation?
A first period box can help prepare tween and teen girls for their menstrual cycle by providing essential items like menstrual pads, period underwear, educational materials, product information and instructions on how to use them, pain relief medication. It can also offer emotional support, boosting confidence during this significant transition.
We put together a list of gifts to add to your child’s first period starter kit, based on the suggestions by Uterati community members:
Dark chocolate:
Dark chocolate contains iron and magnesium. When we bleed, our iron levels drop, causing fatigue and tiredness. The iron in dark chocolate replenishes depleted supplies, while magnesium works to reduce PMS symptoms.
Red velvet cake:
Lighten the mood with a bit of humor by baking or buying a celebratory cake. When Summer M. shared with family and friends that she was celebrating her daughter’s first menstrual cycle with a cake, they thought Summer’s daughter might be embarrassed. “But she was not at all!” says Summer. “My younger daughter asked if she could have another piece of Clara’s Period Cake? It made me cry laughing!”
A heartfelt letter:
Writing a letter is a great entry point for a healthy conversation about your child’s first period. When I asked Erika J. what she would say to her younger self, she responded, “Stay prepared and start reading your body. The sooner, the better. Because no one knows you better than you do.”
Face masks:
Add a variety of face masks, like Sephora’s Summer Essentials Collection ($20, Sephora.com) to your child’s First Period Kit. Instead of perpetuating the messages that menstruation brings shame and despair, teach your child to create intentional pampering time to help their young bodies and minds relax a little.
Electric heating pad:
We’ve endured decades of ineffective and wasteful single-use heating pads. Luckily, our kids don’t need to wait that long. Spring for an electric heating pad, like this King Size PureRelief Heating Pad from Kohl’s ($39.99), to show them how to prioritize their comfort.
Flowers and candles:
Some adults still believe that our monthly bloody visitors detract from our romantic and sexual lives. Break that negative stigma from the jump by teaching your child how to practice self-romance. Bonus points: Buy a set of small candles with different scents, like this $22 set on Amazon, to teach them the benefits of aromatherapy.
Informational books about periods:
If your teen or pre-teen absolutely doesn’t want to sit down and have “The Talk,” try tucking a copy of Welcome to Your Period by Yumi Stynes and Dr. Melissa Kang. This book kills two birds with one stone, breaking down essential period information while using gender-neutral language, fostering empathy and resonance for people outside the gender binary who also have periods.
A variety of period protectors, including Flex Cup™ and Discs:
While your child should receive a plethora of options to choose from, we believe it’s best keeping first time bleeders away from menstrual products that may contain toxic chemicals that can cause health problems, such as plastic-based tampons, pads and liners. Always check ingredient lists and actual product packaging. Menstrual products such as tampons, pads and menstrual cups are regulated by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA). The process of inserting a menstrual cup or menstrual disc can also enrich your child’s understanding of their body. If you’re curious about getting started with Flex®, email us at hello@flexfits.com.
First Period Starter kit – Key Takeaways
As you prepare your child for their first period, investing in essentials and informational books can go a long way. Prioritize their comfort and break the stigma around menstruation by embracing self-care rituals like aromatherapy with scented candles. A first period kit is a comforting companion for your child’s journey into menstruation. By including educational resources and safe menstrual products like Flex Cup™, you are empowering them to make informed choices about their menstrual health.
Encourage self-romance and self-care by incorporating soothing rituals such as aromatherapy with scented candles, creating a safe and positive environment for this natural transition. Remember, preparing for their first period is not just about products but also about nurturing their understanding and comfort.
Introducing them to alternative period protectors like the Flex Cup™ and Discs can empower them to make informed choices about their menstrual health. Remember, it’s all about fostering a sense of understanding and body positivity during this crucial time.
